حاسدین

اللّہ سب کو حسد اور کینہ رکھنے والے افراد سے محفوظ رکھے۔
کیونکہ ایسے لوگ، میاں بیوی میں رنجش پیدا کرنے، جلن اور حسد میں کسی کی اولاد کے ساتھ برا کرنے، دلوں میں دوریاں پیدا کرنے، کسی کو معاشی طور پر مستحکم دیکھ کر جلنے کڑھنے اور سب خود چھین لینے میں بلکل آر نہیں سمجھتے۔

ایسے لوگ لوگوں کی زندگیوں میں زہر گھول کر خوش ہوتے ہیں، کسی کو طنز و طعنہ دینے میں فخر محسوس کرتے ہیں۔

یہ اپنی لگائی ہوئی آگ میں خود ہی جل رہے ہوتے ہیں۔

اللّہ ان کو مکافات عمل دکھا رہا ہوتا ہے، ان کے آگے ان کے کرنوں کا پھل واضح ہوتا ہے، اور یہ جانتے ہیں کہ یہ ان ہی کا بویا ہوا زہر ہے جو انکو ختم کر رہا ہے۔

پھر بھی یہ دوسروں کو قصوروار ٹھہراتے ہیں اور بلاوجہ طعنہ و کوسنے دے کر خود کو مظلوم سمجھتے ہیں اور یہ سب کر کے وہ کسی اور کا نہیں اپنا نقصان کرتے ہیں۔

کیونکہ کوئی بھی زیادہ دیر تک کسی کے فضول قسم کے دباؤ اور گالیوں کو برداشت نہیں کرتا۔
ایسا کر کے یہ لوگ لوگوں کے دل میں اپنے لیے خود نفرت پیدا کرتے ہیں اور غلطی تسلیم کرنا تو دور یہ دوسروں کو ہی شرمندہ کرتے ہیں۔

کسی کے دل میں اپنے لیے محبت و ہمدردی گالیوں، کوسنے، طعنے اور بددعائیں دے کر پیدا نہیں ہوتی۔
کوئی آپ کے ساتھ بھلائی کرے اسکا نتیجہ برا کر کے یا بیچ محفل میں زلیل کرنا اپنا فرض سمجھتے ہیں تو یہ ایسے لوگوں کی بھول ہے کہ اس سے محبت پیدا ہوگی۔

انسان ان سب رویوں سے دور ہو جاتا ہے۔
پھر چاہے سامنے والے سے کوئی بھی تعلق ہو، انسان ایسے لوگوں سے ملنا پسند نہیں کرتا جو ہر وقت خود کو افضل اور دوسرے کو حقیر سمجھتے ہیں۔

اگر آپ انسان ہیں آپ کے حقوق ہیں تو دوسرے بھی انسان ہیں اللّٰہ نے ان کا بھی دل بنایا ہے سب کے جذبات و احساسات ہوتے ہیں۔

خدارا دوسروں کی زندگیوں میں زہر گھولنے سے پرہیز کریں ایسا نہ ہو آپ کے رویئے سے دوسرے آپ سے دور ہو جائیں اور آپ اسی زعم میں رہیں کہ ہم مظلوم ہیں۔

اللّہ سب کو ایسے حاسدین اور کینہ پرور لوگوں سے محفوظ رکھے۔ آمین۔

ازقلم،✒
عریشہ عابد

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Sunshine Blogger Award

I’m so much happy and its honor to nominated for Sunshine Blogger Award.

It’s not a nomination its an award by itself.

I had just started blogging but its so honor and means a lot to me to be nominated for such an amazing platform.

Love all my readers

I have been nominated by

sumaiyahsuniverse.wordpress.com

Miss rebellious she is an awesome writer, talented girl and amazing blogger.

She did write on those topics which seems to be nothing but have great impact on our society and lives.

Do visit her blog

Rules:

  1. Thank the person who nominated you and provide a link back to their blogging site.
  2. Answer the questions.
  3. Nominate 11 other bloggers and ask them 11 new questions.
  4. Notify the nominee about it by commenting on 1 of their blog posts.
  5. List the rules, and display the sunshine blogger award logo on your site or on your post.

Questions that I was asked:

  • What is your blog about and what is the aim of your blog?

~ Words are the important way of expression.

We express our thoughts by our words.

In this platform I express all my inner feelings and explore the important issues of our society.

  • What are you most grateful for?

~ I’m grateful to Almighty Allah the most for each and every blessing.

The most precious blessings are my husband and my daughter for me.

  • What is your inspiration and why?

~ My husband is my inspiration.

He is the person in my life who make me encouraged to do all that things I want the most.

  • What are you most passionate about?

~ Cooking- Its my passion and business also I’m an hbfe (home-based food entrepreneur).

Blogging- writing is my soul’s voice.

  • Are you a saver or a spender?

~ I’m a saver as I know earning is not an easy task.

  • What’s the story behind your blog name?

~ Its my world running around me which I explain through my words.

  • Coffee or tea?

~ Coffee ☕

  • How do you spend your weekends?

~ With my family.

  • Any advice for new bloggers?

~ Do like read and appreciate others also as we all do much effort to create a post and do avoid plagiarism.

Always write in your own words.

  • Where in the world would you most like to visit?

~ I most want to visit for Hajj.

  • How did you start blogging? And how has. Your journey as a blogger been so far?

~ I had started to make others beneficial with my words and motivated those who are fighting with their inner soul.

My questions are:

  1. What is the niche of your blog?
  2. In which language do you like to write the most?
  3. Between love and money what will be your preference?
  4. Portion control or cheat diet? What is your mode of eating?
  5. How did you treat a person lesser than you?
  6. What make you laugh the most in your life?
  7. What are the qualities you want in your life partner the most?
  8. Have you ever lie to anyone?
  9. What is prayer means in your opinion?
  10. How important is an individual freedom according to you?
  11. Ever face depression in your life?

The persons I nominate are:

sumaiyahsuniverse.wordpress.com Sumayya Ali Miss Rebellious

momylifetidsbits.com Syeda Taskeen Fatima

khushbakhtiqbal.home.blog Khushbakht Iqbal The Qalamkar-قلم کار

Simpleula.com Simple Ula

Wife101dotblog.wordpress.com Wifey 101

reviewit810089643.wordpress.com Review It

shelyon9.wordpress.com Wanderer

henablogforpaws.wordpress.com Hena’s Blog For Paws

gcdiaries.wordpress.com The Godly Chic Diaries

almostmuslima.wordpress.com Almost Muslima

theenclosedinseashell.wordpress.com   Safaf Sohail

Thank you for being my followers and appreciated my posts.

Body Shaming

Today my daughter was singing a nursery rhyme “Fingers song”

And that time I was also murmuring that song with her

“Baby finger baby finger where are you

Here I’m here I’m how do you do………….”

Suddenly the lyrics changed into my mind and the whole theme of the song transferred from one subject to a totally different objective that no body even think about this kind of fusion.

May be it’s funny for the readers that how a nursery rhyme rhythm change into an extremely sensitive current topic of the world of the hypocrites.

I hope you will like the thoughts of mine regarding this very venomous thing which making the society so cruel, effecting the brains with harsh words and brutal criticism.

Here is the poem;

Body shaming body shaming Where are youHere I’m her I’m how do you do?

Body shaming body shaming what’s your name?

Body shaming body shaming is my name,

Body shaming body shaming what’s you do?Anxiety depression and insomnia,

Body shaming body shaming what they cause?Self-pity, less confidence and hatred,

Body shaming body shaming what’s the result?Mental illness and sometimes suicide,

Body shaming body shaming why did you do it?I didn’t I didn’tDoing humans,

Body shaming body shaming how you created?I created Because of humans criticism,

Body shaming body shaming why are you working?I’m not I’m not,Humans make me work,

Body shaming body shaming what’s the reason?Lower mentality and criticism,

Body shaming body shaming what the cure?Just ignore the criticized person more and more,

Body shaming body shaming how total get rid of?Clearing minds and consider others also humans,

Body shaming body shaming did you end up?Yes yes I will end up,

Body shaming body shaming how will do it happen? It’s all in human hands I’m helpless.

By✒

Areesha Abid.

KhushAmdeed December 🌁

December chal para ghar se

November hai vida hua

Sard mausam sard lehjon ka

Phir hai agaaz hua

Gaye dinon ki yaden

Puray saal ka hai mawazna hua

Kia khoya kia paya

Is ka sara hai hisab hua

Natija nikla hai is poray tehqiqat se

Waqt tikta nahi do ghari bhi kisi ke wastay

Abhi waqt hai thora

Mahina ab bhi baki hai

Ke jo khoya ke jo paya

Isay bhul kar phir se

Karen aagaaz nayi soch nayi kawishon ka

Ke jitna hai bas mai apnay ke jitna dam ha apna

Zindagi hai rawa dawa toh mohlat hai abhi humen

Ke ao qadam barhain phir se khushion ki raah main

Gaye dino ki talkh batoon ko bhul kar phir se

Ji len is sal ke December ko tariqay se

Ke har baar ki tarha rona

Sard lehjon ko bona

Zarori nahi mausam hai sard

To dil bhi sard ho

Ke pehli bar December ka aagaz

Muhabbat aur garamjoshi ke sath ho.

Az qalam✒

Areesha Abid

خوش آمدید دسمبر 🌁

دسمبر چل پڑا گھر سے
نومبر ہے وداع ہوا

سرد موسم سرد لہجوں کا
پھر ہے آغاز ہوا

گئے دنوں کی یادیں
پورے سال کا ہے موازنہ ہوا

کیا کھویا کیا پایا
اس کا سارا ہے حساب ہوا

نتیجہ نکلا ہے اس پورے تحقیقات سے
وقت ٹکتا نہیں دو گھڑی بھی کسی کے واسطے

ابھی وقت ہے تھوڑا
مہینہ اب بھی ہے باقی

کہ جو کھویا کہ جو پایا
اسے بھول کر پھر سے

کریں آغاز نئی سوچ نئی کاوشوں کا
کہ جتنا ہے بس میں اپنے کہ جتنا دم ہے اپنا

زندگی ہے رواں دواں تو مہلت ہے ابھی ہمیں
کہ آؤ قدم بڑھائیں پھر سے خوشیوں کی راہ میں

گئے دنوں کی تلخ باتوں کو بھلا کر پھر سے
جی لیں اس سال کے دسمبر کو طریقے سے

کہ ہر بار کی طرح رونا
سرد لہجوں کو بونا

ضروری نہیں موسم ہے سرد
تو دل بھی سرد ہو

کہ پہلی بار اس دسمبر کا آغاز
محبت اور گرمجوشی سے کے ساتھ ہو۔

ازقلم ،✒
عریشہ عابد۔

Half-day of a housewife

Housewife… A person totally belongs to her house🏠 and family👪 Each and every time🕛 of her day is spend on her home chores and fulfilling family needs.

Its a wonderful feeling to live for your family❤ and try to do best in each and every aspects to make family cozy and happy.

I, Areesha Abid, a housewife, a Mom.

I love to live for my family and do best for my family.

But sometimes I think I should have a break for myself, to enjoy myself lonely.

Sometimes it felt so tired in continually performing the duties and responsibilities.

As change is the only way through a mind get relaxed.💆

Neither sleep nor relaxing pills.

Only changing situations makes a mind relax and fresh😇.

Today I got a half-day. Yeah!😄 Seriously…. A half-day of a housewife.

My mother came in the evening to take my daughter with her. She was going to her friend’s place, and want to take my daughter with her, as her friend mostly ask for my daughter, to bring her someday.

So she came and my daughter went with her for few hours.

At that time my husband was also going out for some work. He asked me if I want him to stay at home as I’m all alone so he will stay with me.

But I said him to go and do his work first, I’ll manage myself.

After he left, i decided to take a warm bath as I was so much tired to make all these cheesy potatoes noodles soup 🍵, potatoes stuffed breadpakoras 🍞 and crushed potato pizza 🍕 for Sunday enjoyment.

My husband’s friends also arrived our place today to meet him so also prepared tea and refreshments for them also.

So I took a hot bath and made myself fresh😌 then i felt my home was all quite and I was getting little upset of being alone.

I recited namaz and make myself relaxed as I didn’t do focus and concentrate with my daughter’s presence.

Then I went out to brought some milk and coffee for me as I was craving for it badly.

Then I made a coffee ☕ for me and enjoyed it with a cup of soup 🍵 and a book 📖, I was wanting to read for a long time but hadn’t got time to go through it.

It was a mind freshing hours I had as a half-day.

Literally feel so much relaxed but its true I badly missed my daughter and hubby 😢

When my daughter came back home I hugged and kissed her madly 😍😘

So the change is the thing which make mind relax.

Take some break for yourself to have a change and freshness for mind and soul.

Have a great Life ❤.

Areesha Abid.